BDBD is Proverb 21:14

What can I do if I have angered someone? Can anything be done to pacify great wrath? This proverb says a gift given in secret soothes anger. A concealed bribe pacifies great wrath. Apostle Paul wrote to the Romans, “Let us, therefore, make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” (Romans 14:19) It appears gifts and bribery will lead to peace. That is what Jacob did when his brother was coming to him. He sent him many gifts. (Genesis 32)

Teaching of spiritual matters Jesus used earthly examples. One day he revealed what I should do to settle accounts with God. “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you are still with him on the way, or he may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. I tell you the truth, you will not get out until you have paid the last penny.” (Matthew 5:25-26)

When I sin I become an adversary to God. I have nothing that I can offer God except my love and obedience. Yet, I have nothing to offer him that could ease his wrath. However, Jesus will be my advocate if I ask him. He offered the perfect sacrifice that appeased God’s wrath. He offered his life. He is the atoning sacrifice that pacifies wrath. Jesus is the gift given in secret that soothes anger.