Who was to blame for Jesus being separated from his parents? The question implies that someone is to blame for an error. Yet, no error had been made.
Jesus’ parents asked, “Son, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.” The question and supporting statement say that they were anxious, meaning they believed Jesus was lost or, even worse, may have been taken and harmed. They also implied that Jesus was negligent in his responsibilities and obligations to his parents. The concept and reaction are common for any parent. How much more two people whom God entrusted his Son with?
When my daughter was perhaps five or six years old, our family took a vacation to Mammoth Cave in Kentucky. While walking with a group through their tallest cave system, we arrived at Crystal Falls after navigating the narrowest section. The guide turned off the lights behind us and began leading everyone up a tall metal spiral staircase. My daughter obviously did not want to walk up the stairs. So she bolted towards the darkness we had just traversed. I experienced the greatest fear I had yet experienced. I ran after her, trying to keep from falling on the slippery rock floor. I captured her and tightly carried a screaming and wiggly young girl up the slippery metal stairs. Upon reaching the top, she calmed down, and we made our way out. ” Who was to blame? Her or I? Neither.
Did she disobey me? Was I neglectful? Did either of us disrespect the other? These questions were never asked because they are meaningless.
Jesus’ response to his parents also displays this. Jesus remained obedient, and his mother treasured Jesus’ reply. Jesus knew who Father above was and was eager to know and experience him. Mary knew that she and Joseph were doing well in bringing him up according to God’s word and way. Sometimes there is no need to blame the other.
