Apostle Paul addresses two more problems in the Corinthian congregation in chapter 6. First, lawsuits against others in the congregation, and second, employing a prostitute. The points are rather straightforward. Yet, some good truths are also revealed within.
First, if there is a dispute between two believers, they should settle it among themselves (1-8). The Corinthian believers were going to court against each other. If the brothers and sisters cannot settle their differences on a one-to-one basis, another member of the congregation should intervene. Paul said it is very important to settle disagreements between brothers and sisters in the Lord. The same is true between husband and wife, and between parents and children. Jesus also taught peace and love to the disciples, who often argued about who was the greatest. (Mark 9:33-37)
Secondly, I am the temple of God, and my wife is the temple of God. Therefore, I should honor God with my body sexually (12-20). Sex is God’s great gift to a married man and women only. When any man and a woman lie together, no matter the circumstances, they become one flesh. (16b). “One flesh” means one in body, mind, soul, and spirit. This union is sacred, designed by God (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5; Mark 10:6-9).
God’s design through sex is for the married and united couple never to be united with another, neither in body, mind, nor heart. The couple is to continually engage in building each other up in this sacred union blessed by the Holy Spirit. Looking at marriage statistics, couples I know, and my own life, I know this is truly great and yet takes effort, a determined will, and passion.
Because of the blessing of marriage and the sexual union, Paul emphasises, “Flee from sexual immorality.” (18) Self-control is a gift of the Holy Spirit we can choose to exercise. (1 Corinthians 7:5; Galatians 5:23; 2 Peter 1:6) All Christians have been given a gift to stay true to their spouse, whether married, engaged, or still waiting for the Lord Jesus to introduce them to the one whom He will unite them. Therefore, God has given us the ability to control our bodies, including keeping the marriage bed only with the one God unites us to. (Hebrews 13:4)
