Jesus quoted this verse when he revealed to his disciples that one of them was going to betray him. (John 13:18-21) Jesus, the Son of David experienced the betrayal of a close friend as his forefather David had. If that is true of the Son of God, then I should not be surprised when someone who is or was more than a friend would do the same. Of course, I will be hurt and sad. But I should not be surprised.
Friends, the people I associate with come in many forms. One kind of friend is one I know and like to be around, though I do not know everything about them. Perhaps they and I are in a social group or the local congregation together. I know them and they know me, but not well. We occasionally exchange conversations and laughs. But if one of us has troubles and burdens we act concerned, but really do not get involved enough to be a help.
Another friend is someone I share my past, present, dreams, and desires. We trust each other enough to spend more time together. They and I share common interests, perhaps a sport or a craft. If either of us needs a helping hand we step up and show our friendship. We ask each other’s advice and share opinions. We do not hurt each other unless it is for the good.
The closest friendships a person has are ones that trust each other completely. Each knows the other has their backs protected. This friendship shares meals, laughter, sadness, fear, and expectations. This kind of friendship knows what the other reaction will be to a life event. While doing an activity, whether pleasant or unpleasant, they wish the other was with them. They are the first person they think of when they want to share an idea or experience. Both of these friends would lay down their lives for the other. This is the kind of friendship Jesus had with Judas, who betrayed him. Jesus loved him enough to warn him while not exposing him.
Jesus says to me, “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” (John 15:12-15) Let me not betray him by not keeping his command of love.
